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Writer's pictureLouis Melendez

Mastering the "I" in Team During Job Interviews

I’ve sat through hundreds of interviews and coached hundreds more and I can tell you that one of the most common pitfalls is people forgetting to talk about themselves. They mention their accomplishments and their professional achievements, but they typically do them in the context of their team and use language like “we” and “us.” 


Picture this: You're sitting across from the hiring manager, palms sweaty, heart racing, and they ask you about your biggest accomplishment. You launch into a passionate spiel about your team's amazing project... and suddenly realize you've barely mentioned yourself. Oops!


The "We" Trap

We're taught from day one that teamwork makes the dream work. And it does! But when it comes to job interviews, you need to shine a spotlight on YOU. It's not about being selfish; it's about showcasing your unique value. You’re the one auditioning for the job - not your team, the product you worked on or your former company. 


The "I" Solution

Here's the golden line you can start using right away: 

"Naturally, it was a team effort, but where I believe I really shined was..."


This magic phrase does two things:

  1. It acknowledges your collaborative spirit

  2. It smoothly transitions into your personal contributions


Putting It into Practice

Let's break it down with an example:


"We increased sales by 30% last quarter."

"Naturally, it was a team effort, but where I believe I really shined was in developing a new outreach strategy that contributed to our 30% sales increase last quarter."


See the difference? The second version gives credit to the team while highlighting your specific role in the success.


The Bottom Line

Remember, in a job interview, you're not just a supporting character – you're the star of your own show. It's crucial to articulate your individual contributions clearly and confidently. This doesn't mean downplaying teamwork; it means finding the right balance between showcasing your collaborative skills and your personal impact.


As you prepare for your next interview, practice translating your "we" statements into powerful "I" statements. Highlight your unique skills, decisions, and actions that contributed to the team's success. This approach will help you stand out as a strong individual contributor who also excels in a team environment.


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